Worrking With Those you Live With

Working with a loved one and living with a love one can it be done ? Some say yes others No and those you see on the NEWS, TOP STORY, so what about the few that can, have healthy happy relations do you believe it well I for one do not . There would have to be boundaries in play for a couple or anybody working with family so that there is a part of your life you can control away from the those you work with and live with. Did you notice I used the big control word those that love us all of a sudden see a caution flag in that lay and yells oh yeah something is up, but you have to let them know that you just need some space for yourself, you even may want to pick out a night on one of your days off to have something with them. Relationships are hard at the best of times you and work into the mix, along with the pressures of home and lets face it , these days it is harder to cope in every aspect in life even figuring yourself out is hard, the you add your loved one on top work. Bang, if not handle right you will have nothing, so lets see what we can come up with. Every person has one thing that they like to do alone, so that will be but in play, but you have to be honest and really let them earn your trust as time goes by, do not take advantage. I am speaking to both parties because if you cannot trust someone to be away from you for at least two hours and that is what I would recommend, then you have a problem. Trust will have to be worked on and I do not advise to work together because your laundry will spill over into work and that will make everyone uncomfortable. But if you think about it two hours is not tat long and it gives both of you the time you need to blow of the tension that may be and will be within your relationship. Here are some of the things I would like to do , go for a bike ride if my feet can handle it(bike) , go to the library, maybe get my hair done and read a good book in the park while taking in the beauty of nature around me. What no drinking you say, no I reserve to that with my loved so he can earn my trust and yes he has reason not too. So you see pick the things that will not cause adversary and to top it off make a date night on one of your days off together one night he plan the next you plan the date . Keep it exciting and hope it all works for the best ,